5 Ways To Build Rapport With Women You Meet Online

So you joined a dating website and got a response from a woman. Great! Now what? How do you transition from first click to first date in a smooth and natural way? This article will outline 5 ways on how you can build rapport and establish trust with the women you meet online.

Ask Questions
Men and women get acquainted by asking each other questions. However, inquiries that merit a simple “yes” or “no” answer aren’t enough anymore. You must engage her with open ended questions that are fun and interesting.

For instance, instead of asking a woman if she likes ice cream, ask her what she considers to be the ultimate dessert and why? This will get her creative juices flowing and push her to write something more interesting than a simple “yes” or “no” response.

Find Common Links
One of the advantages of online dating is that a lot of the information about the woman is already laid out for you in her profile. So instead of fishing for information over coffee, you can immediately see what she likes. Use this info to build a bridge between you and her by bringing up topics where you already have some common ground.

Show Interest
When men get a dialogue going with a woman via email, they tend to ask her for multiple pictures so they can gauge how attractive she is. While photos do play an important role in online dating, women want to know you’re interested in them as a person, not just their looks.

Ask her things about her family, career ambitions, and travel adventures. Reciprocate by sharing similar experiences from your own life. Maintaining that healthy balance of sharing and learning is key to building rapport with a woman.

Write Like You Talk
When conversing with a woman online, never disguise your personality with words you wouldn’t normally say when talking to a close friend in real life. Let your true personality flow through your words so that she gets an accurate sense of who you are. That way, she won’t feel misled when you meet her in person.

Make Her Smile
There are three certainties in life: death, taxes and women attracted to men who make them laugh. Don’t know where to start? Try a role reversal. For instance, say she compliments you in one of her emails. Write back with something like: “Whoa, easy there tiger. You can’t win me over with mere compliments. You have to work hard and woo me first. Heck, before long you’ll be asking me over to check out your new stereo and CD collection.”

Get the picture? If she’s an emotionally healthy, intelligent woman she’ll see that you’re playing with her and that the game is on. This witty banter will almost always make a woman eager to meet you in real life for a date.

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